We agree with this statement, because friends are people who we need both in trouble and in happy time.for example, if a person is in troubles only his friend can help him, and it doesn't matter which problem is occurred. furthermore, if a person has something good to share he does it with his friend.
i think that you totally wrong! Because our relatives and parents could help with out hesitations! If we rely on our friends only they easily could betray us in any moment..........in such situations like benefit or love, most people think about themselves.
As I previously said since friend is half of you they can use adnvantage of your Axilles sole as I heard for several time in order to overcome your enemy you should keep them closer than friends in order to control each their step more comfortably.
Friends are the most important thing in life, because they are always with us when we have ups and downs and someone with whom one shares the strongest possible kind of friendship.
May be somehow you are right, but in my opinion friends are not important. because every close friend may betray you. You trust him or her, tell everything, share your good or bad emotions but one day if this person betrays you, you will never believe to people again..
Of course, there are a lot of cases when we have miserable situations with friends , but we have to forgive them. And when you have a betrayer as a friend it means only that you have chosen not right person for friendship. And one more argument that I would like to mention ! Guys, you might not remember one topic from integrated skills about septuagenarians( elderly people) who were asked about their friends. scientists made a survey and found out that those old man and women who had even one friend lived longer and had no very serious problems with health. It is well-known that we got illnesses because of some bad feeling such as grief, bore, envy and of course, loneliness.
I strongly agree that friends are very important in our life because we always need in supporting us. Of course, we can get this support from our relatives or parents, but friends can listen to you and chat in more open way
Actually I don’t agree with this agreement. there are in the world various kinds of people around each of us. We should never be in hurry to choose friends in order to put our heads on their shoulders in troubles or to trust our secrets because as Konfutsiy said person who can be more dangerous than your main enemy is your close friend since he or she knows everything about you even about your very weak features.
Friends are the most important thing in life
In this difficult world most of us really depend on our friends invaluable help, their encouragements, and their helpful advice. To prove my statement, I would like to tell you one of my life experiences. In my schooldays I was very inexperienced but I had many friends who helped me in any way. One day my father was ill, and I had to take him to hospital. Unfortunately, I had lack of money for hospital expense in those days. My friends raised money for treatment and they always came to see how our condition was. They helped a lot, and I have never forgotten their favor. I always try to be deserved friend to them.
I don’t believe that our most of friends help only for us; they just help us because of their own purposes. At the beginning of their kindness we may not realize their fake attitudes toward us, but then it becomes obvious. For example, in my life experience I’ve had one situation that made me change my mind about true friends. Here is my story:
When I was studying at 8th class, my parents flied to another country, they must have returned in ten days, but their business trip prolonged. When I spent all money, I had to loan some money from one of my intimate friend. He without any doubt lent me some. I was very pleased for his kindness. After long ages, there was scandal between us. And it came to the situation that we fought with each other. After fighting, he said all his support, help, and even money which he lend me a long ago to my face. I was in shock because I had already back his money. Then I understood that there are not true friends at all.
This kind of events happened many times, this is only one of them.
To some extend, you may be right. However, many wise people said that one has to be very careful while choosing a true friend. Your only fault was inappropriately chosen friend. At first you didn't challenge your friend with different situations. As a consequence, you suffered a lot. A trustful friend never betrays you. He is always ready to spend everything for you as he own. His support helps you to choose the correct ways in this challenging world as he knows your ability and your achievements. For instance, my best Davron advised me to choose this university, because he noticed my ability towards English. At first, I chose Law University but I was not sure to pass the exam. His advice directed me to the right way. I am really thankful for him.
(for Jahongir) All in all, I can freely say that there are not true friends, excluding God and parents. Only they could be a real friend of you.
In my point of view, especially for women the most important thing is their family. When the marriage starts, friends step on the background and women try pay attention on their children and husband. Wasting time for just sitting at the restaurant and doing nothing instead of doing house work, it is a cruelty
(For Jahangir). It is generally accepted that we ourselves should find the best friends. What if there are not true ones in our living place. True friends might have been once, but now people are becoming selfish, they think only themselves, if there is benefit from one, they help, but vice versa they find another one.
In order to have a loyal friend who doesn't betray, one should know how to choose the right person as a friend. That person should know you inside and feel you. If we are friends with such people, we will never face with bad situation that you mentioned.
of course, we should carefully choose our friends and it means that we do right choice, because friendship appears during the many years and many situations through which we can make our conclusion about people. moreover, if you have financial troubles only friend helps and supports you providing needed money. sometimes even parents cannot help in some situations, because they may not understand you like a friend.
Being honestly most of us keep their freinds as real friends not suspecting in thier probablity of cheating but with leaps of time we can recognize people more clearly whether they are friends for us or not. we should not be tied with friendly very closely but keep certain distantion between. Sometimes your freinds satisfying your any kind of needs may plan to get significanly more in retrun.
Speaking about money!could you answer for my question: How much money they could give you?and when you should return it back??? What about your parents. They could give you money and not asking them back! Relatives could give a big amount of money instead of friends......One more idea about choosing friends, nobody knows what is in another person`s mind and you couldn`t predict their actions in future........
Of course our life is full of different troubles and difficulties. Sometimes it seems very boring and days become gray and ordinary. In such cases we need to relax and have a rest. And who will encourage you and join you?! of course, your friends. Our relatives and parents are not able to give us such fun as friends can
I disagree with this statement, because people are not scanners, they can not predict what his friend will do tomorrow, on which side of life he will be. I think, that our relatives can be good friends. For example mother. Mother will never betray, you can trust her, tell every action that happens in your life. If you cannot tell some secrets to your mother, as friend you can choose your sister.
Friend is one of the closest person to someone after the family
Some people feel that one can't be without having a close friend, however the supporters of this viewpoint are wrong. I think the best friend for is is ourselves
Some people feel that one can't be without having a close friend, however the supporters of this viewpoint are wrong. I think the best friend for us is ourselves
all of us have friends, and you also, we don't think that you have never relied on your close friend. we repeat again, be careful while choosing your friend and everything will be okay.
In addition, there are some situations which we cannot tell our parents and we need someone trustworthy to share our thoughts. and this person can give advice concerning our situation
As Akmal mentioned recently only we ourself can be the most important thing in life. Being alone we have opportunity to provide safety for ourselves. nother friends' appearance nor their attatude can prove this topic.
I strongly believe that there are some moments in the life that only your friend can help you and give you the real advice and help. Sometimes even you cannot understand yourself and no one can say the real truth to yourself
I disagree with Akmal’s statement,because there is a question when you are your only friend. Can you see your mistakes and can you judge yourself as an objective person?
To some extend your idea might be right, but let's imagine our lives without friends, only with the help of our parents and relatives, doesn't it seem too simple and boring. When we go out or want to do something interesting we'll feel in need of someone who is your teen and whose outlook is similar as yours, in this case, parents might not be with you, they might be busy with their jobs, because anyway they have their much more responsibilities than yours.
I strongly disagree with you Saltanat, because even best friends may betray you. It is said that if you want to keep your secret don't tell it anyone, even to your best friend. The world is round and everything in any moment can turn to 360 degrees.
have you heart that your biggest enemy is your friend. only your friend knows your sickness. and one day he can betray you.
If you cannot trust other people, it means that you do not have any close person
as we know, there are many stressful days in our lives. if we are alone, we keep on thinking and worrying about problems. And Friends are people who can cheer us up and make us forget about troubles. for example, one of my coursemate has problems with his work, study, girlfriend, family, and he may enjoy with his close friends. he can go to playstation, walk with them, joke and chat. through these activities he forgets every problem
in this world you can trust only on God and your parents. only they can understand you and be with you every time.
to sum up, friends are people who are gifted us from God. sometimes we don't need solutions to our problems, just we want to be listened. at these times, our friends are there for us.
In conclusion I would to say that friends can be the same enemy! be careful!;)
In conclusion, i wanted to summarize all my ideas. Friendship could last till marriage and they could betray in any moment, we shouldn`t trust every one and rely on them fully! Any way thank you guys for your ideas! it was interesting to debate with you!
what is friendship itself? As you know, friendship it is when you have a person with whom you are sharing everything. but if you want to go somewhere with someone it doesn't mean that it is your best friend. in conclusion, i want to mention, that there are no friendship in our life, there are only our family and other people whom you know, but do not believe.
All in all, we should appreciate our friends' kindness and care. Their sincere help raise us as a perfect man in the world. As Robert Hall said: A friend should be one in whose understanding and virtue we can equally confide, and whose opinion we can value at once for its justness and its sincerity. Thus we live happily with our friends forever.
As is's said: do not walk behind me, i may not lead. do not walk in front of me; i may not follow you. just walk beside me and be my friend!
Making a conclusion I would like to notice one thing! Every of you has a friend and we can't even pretend our life without them. We become very disappointed when quarrel with them and always want to comunicate with them again. loneliness is the most distroing thing in our life.
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